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Don’t Be a Jerk in Your Interview

Posted on 12. Jul, 2008 posted by Bill in Cover Letters, Employment News

Over the years, I’ve occasionally hired someone who was eminently qualified as far as the specific technical skills were concerned, but who later turned out to be, well…a jerk. And the thing about jerks is that they can be very good at concealing that trait in a job interview, especially if they are otherwise very qualified.

Even if the “jerk factor” comes through in the interview, if they are the most experienced and qualified applicant it’s very tempting to overlook problem personalities and hire them for their experience. And it’s always a mistake.

The thing is, a good hiring manager can pretty easily pick up whether or not you have the specific experience and technical skills for the job. Whether it’s a high-level technology position or a simple administrative assistant position, we know the right questions to ask to probe for the proper skills and experience.

Ah, but the soft skills…that’s a much more difficult thing to assess in an interview. Many hiring managers call this the “likability factor”, which of course is the opposite of the “jerk factor”. Do you have a good attitude, a positive outlook on things, are you friendly, do you get along well with people, are you dependable, trustworthy? These are the soft skills that all hiring managers want.

Most experienced hiring managers who have been burned by hiring jerks are particularly tuned in to trying to get a read on these soft skills in the interview. They know that if you are light on the technical skills, you can be trained. But you either have the soft skills or you don’t. You can’t really teach someone to be positive and get along well with people. In other words, you can’t “unteach” a jerk to not be one.

In fact, the more experienced the hiring manager, the more they would rather miss a good person than hire a bad one.

So the question is, how do you show the hiring manager that you aren’t a jerk?

Simply put, avoid demonstrating any of these three personality traits in your interview: arrogant, condescending, and patronizing. These three traits will be the kiss of death in an interview with an experienced hiring manager.

No matter how much more you think you know than the hiring manager, no matter how much better you perceive yourself to be than the hiring manger, you simply cannot display that in an interview. The hiring manager will automatically assume that if you come across this way in the interview, when a job rides on the outcome, you will come across even stronger to your co-workers once you are on the job.

In other words, you’ll turn out to be a jerk.

The bottom line here is you have to make an effort to have yourself perceived as being friendly, positive, and likable in the interview. And hopefully, you really are!

Tom McBroom has been a Hiring Manager for over 25 years and manages the website http://www.job-search-steps.com – which is dedicated to helping you find a job quickly. Visit his site for complete information about conducting a job search, writing resumes and cover letters, and interviewing.

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